How do we know what God's call is for us if we are focused on our careers? Is it appropriate to focus on that career and then get married/enter religious life later? Or maybe the call/vocation IS the career and you could be single?
Oh this topic, this is something that I can write about. If you have ever read more than a handful of posts on this here bloggity than you know that I am studying to be a nurse. In fact I am in my last of five years. It hasn't been easy to get to this point. To make a very long and grace filled story short I didn't get into the nursing the program on the first try and I failed a class which they miraculously decided to let me repeat over the summer. Me being a nursing major didn't happen by accident and the Lord's hand has defiantly been in it throughout. And nursing, nursing is special. People come to you when they are in a very vulnerable state- they are hurt, they are sick, they are bringing a life into the world, they are trying to be as healthy as they can be. As a [future] nurse I get to, in a very real way, be Jesus' hands to them- caring for them, cleaning them up, comforting them. However, beautifully, they also represent Christ to me. I get to wash the feet of Christ and I get to hold His face and tell him it is going to be ok every time I go to work.
Nursing Dedication Ceremony |
So how does this play into my vocation? I know I am meant to be a nurse for a reason, that reason, not positive. Because of all this I have felt for a while that God might have some "professional goals" in mind for me before I settle down with a hubby wubby (do not tell any guy I may end up dating that he may end up getting called that in our wedded life). Maybe missionary work. Possibly become a midwife. Like I said last week, hopefully a Creighton Model Practitioner Or something else awesome that He hasn't even led me to yet. And maybe I will be on the path to marriage very soon and then nursing might go to the back burner. I don't know anything for sure but I do know I am open to whatever He wants.
So do I think I can listen to God's call about my vocation and career at the same time? Absolutely. I think both are important. In fact something that has given me much consolation in the thought of not having to be a full time stay at home mommy (though nothing is wrong with that) is St. Gianna. Not only was she a loving mother and wife but she was ALSO a physician. That means she probably worked long hard hours caring for her patients while her children were with nannies and then going home and also being a wife and mother. She did this and became a saint. We can have the career and vocation if that is the path of sanctity the Lord has called us to.
Me with St. Gianna's banner in Lourdes, France. |
Is it appropriate to focus on a career and then get married later or maybe even spend our whole life focused on a career and remain single? News flash- our life should be in the hands of the Father's will. If He is calling us to the above thing then by golly we should do it. I think the Lord has, does and will call people to spend their life in a career that becomes their vocation and we must always follow the Lord's will in everything we do.
I look forward to hearing all of you ladies' response to this topic.
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Blessings on your final year! And I love that you brought up St. Gianna. The saints are perfect examples of people following God's will in their lives and that there's no one-size-fits-all approach to that. :)
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